Drupal Core Update issues

Drupal Core update is my least favorite part of my job. This is not a process I do frequently, so when it does come up for an update, its always a huge mess. Has anyone developed, or come across, an easy, general step by step for the process? I have gone thru a run thru with our Web designer, but I still can not make heads or tails of it.

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